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Generation X is increasingly ‘whatever’ at work

Caught between Boomers that won’t retire and more loyal Y employees

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/33949753/ns/business-careers/

CHICAGO - They're antsy and edgy, tired of waiting for promotion opportunities at work as their elders put off retirement. A good number of them are just waiting for the economy to pick up so they can hop to the next job, find something more fulfilling and get what they think they deserve. Oh, and they want work-life balance, too.

Sounds like Gen Y, the so-called "entitlement generation," right?

Not necessarily, say people who track the generations. In these hard times, they're also hearing strong rumblings of discontent from Generation X. They're the 32- to 44-year-olds who are wedged between baby boomers and their children, often feeling like forgotten middle siblings — and increasingly restless at work as a result.

"All of a sudden, we've gone from being the young upstarts to being the curmudgeons," says Bruce Tulgan, a generational consultant who's written books about various age groups, including his fellow Gen Xers.

This isn't the first time Gen Xers have faced tough times. They came of age during a recession and survived the dot-com bust of 2000. In recent years, though, more members of the generation — stereotyped early on as jaded individualists — had families or began settling down in other ways. It was time, they thought, to enjoy the rewards of paying some dues.

"We were starting to buy into the system, at least to some extent," Tulgan says, "and then we got the rug pulled out from under us."

Now, in this latest recession, nearly two-thirds of baby boomer workers, ages 50 to 61, say they might have to push back their retirement, according to a recent survey from Pew Research.

Meanwhile, on the other end of the age spectrum are Gen Yers, who are often cheaper to hire and heralded for their coveted high-tech knowledge, even though many Gen Xers consider themselves just as technologically savvy.

"It's so annoying," says Lisa Chamberlain, another Gen Xer who wrote the book "Slackonomics: Generation X in the Age of Creative Destruction." "First, it was always the baby boomers overshadowing everything. Then there was this brief period in the mid-'90s where Gen X was cool.

"Now it's, 'What are the new kids doing?' It's like 'Yo, hello, the Google guys are Gen Xers.'"

They can sound a little whiny. But there's also some evidence that Gen Xers really are being taken for granted at work.

One survey done this year for Deloitte Consulting LLP, for instance, found that nearly two-thirds of executives at large companies were most concerned about losing Gen Y employees, while less than half of them had similar concerns about losing Gen Xers.

The assumption is often that Gen Yers are the least loyal and most mobile, says Robin Erickson, a manager with Deloitte's human capital division.

However, she points out that a companion survey of employees found that only about 37 percent of Gen Xers said they planned to stay in their current jobs after the recession ends, compared with 44 percent of Gen Yers, 50 percent of baby boomers and 52 percent of senior citizen workers who said the same.

Everyone surveyed worried about job security. Gen X and Gen Y were most likely to complain about pay. But a "lack of career progress," was by far the biggest gripe from Gen Xers, with 40 percent giving that as a reason for their restlessness, compared with 30 percent of Gen Yers, 20 percent of baby boomers and 14 percent of senior workers.

Gen Yers, meanwhile, were more likely than the other generations to cite "lack of challenges in the job" as a reason they would leave, while baby boomers more often chose "poor employee treatment during the downturn" and a "lack of trust in leadership."

The Deloitte study warns of a "resume' tsunami" once economic recovery begins, especially among Gen Xers, and notes that many executives were largely unaware of employee complaints unrelated to money.

Such findings don't surprise Rich Yudhishthu, a 37-year-old Gen Xer who's a business development consultant from Minneapolis.

"The lack of promotional opportunities has pretty much killed job loyalty within a generation," he says.

Liza Potts, a 35-year-old professor at Old Dominion University in Norfolk, Va., agrees, but also notes that the disillusionment took hold for many of her peers as far back as childhood.

"Many of my friends had hoped to have jobs like their parents — places they would stay forever that would take care of them like they did their parents. But then we saw that start to crumble for our folks," she says, recalling friends whose fathers and mothers got laid off from companies such as IBM or had to relocate.

Now worried about their own foreclosures, debt and unemployment, her generation is left to do the soul-searching their parents did.

"Is there still time to become something different? Must we just accept where we are? Is there time to innovate elsewhere?" asks Potts who left her own career in the software and Internet industry for a life in academia. It's meant less money, she says, but also more freedom to choose her work hours and projects.

In Chicago, 40-year-old real estate agent Adon Navarette has taken on extra jobs to make it, from consultant for an energy supply company to starting his own health and wellness business. He's heard his peers sniping about other generations, but also thinks their experience with other rough economic patches makes them resilient, too.

It's a pivotal moment, he says.

"What's going to define me as a Gen Xer is how I come out of this. What's going to define me is, 'What have I done to allow myself to take advantage of the market when the market turns around?'" he says.

Sometimes, it means working for less money.

Jon Anne Willow, co-publisher of ThirdCoastDigest.com, an online arts and culture site in Milwaukee, is among employers who've recently been able to hire more experienced candidates for jobs traditionally filled by 20-somethings.

They're hungry to work, she says. And as she sees it, that gives her fellow Gen Xers and the baby boomers she's hired a distinct advantage over a lot of the Gen Yers she's come across.

"When the dust settles, they'll be exactly as they were before and we'll just have to sift through them and take the ones that actually get it and hope the rest find employment in fast food," she quips.

Spoken like a truly jaded Gen Xer.

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19th-Nov-2009 10:01 am - 8.. no wait 7 Hot (Openly) Gay Actors
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Over at Twirlit, which appears to be a site for straight women, they have a list called "You Can Look, But You Can't Touch: 7 Hot (Openly) Gay Actors" which is a pretty decent mainstream list. If you're observant, you notice in the URL itself refers to eight actors. Which is how many were listed when I first saw it. It looks like lawyers phoned.

Life can’t always be about having everything you want, when you want it. Sometimes you are limited to window shopping, to the quickest of glances, to imagined passion. Here’s a list of hot *openly* gay actors who will never long for our feminine touch, yet still. Still we lust and admire (and respect!) many of these excellent spokesmen for the gay community. So, stare and admire!

1. Luke McFarlane

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Many of you may know McFarlane as Scotty Wandell on ABC’s “Brothers and Sisters,” on which he plays an openly gay man married to one of the “brothers” of the show, played by Matthew Rhys. McFarlane came out to the media in 2008 and then promptly said this wonderful thing:

“…in portraying gay people, the more we realize it’s just like portraying anybody else and, gay marriage, it’s not about two people being gay, it’s about two people who love each other and who have decided to commit to each other for the exact same reasons any other couple would get married.”

2. Robert Gant

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Gant is mostly famous for being on the American version of Queer as Folk for Showtime, as HIV-positive Ben Bruckner who crusades against “Prop 14″ inside the show, a TV equivalent of many controversial anti-gay marriage bills. His advocacy goes beyond the fictional world though. Gant was recognized and honored by The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) in 2003, and was given the National Equality Award by the Human Rights Commission in 2006. And, of course, Google him and you’ll get pages and pages of crazy tight abs photos. But remember the advocacy, ladies!

Amazing quote: “For me, the litmus test to know whether or not I’m doing the right thing is to examine whether my decisions are love-based or fear-based. I think outing people is fear based, the fear that if we don’t out them, it will make things harder for all of us. It’s important to treat people with love.”

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source: http://www.twirlit.com/2009/11/02/you-can-look-but-you-cant-touch-8-hot-openly-gay-actors/
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14th-Nov-2009 01:08 am - Poll Gaga
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5th-Nov-2009 10:26 pm - today in looks.
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I must have looked really cute today. 2 girls shamelessly flirted with me today. One was a tranny, so I must have looked straight too.
3rd-Nov-2009 08:14 pm - Election results. (in gifs)
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NJ-GOV:

VA-GOV:

NYC-MAYOR:

NY-23:

MAINE-Q1:

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1st-Nov-2009 07:24 pm - This is It
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it was sooo weird watching This is It.
I remember when I posted the original story on March 5 when he announced the tour dates. I looked on ONTD to see if it had been posted yet, and unsurprisingly it wasn't, so I did it.

http://community.livejournal.com/ohnotheydidnt/32838656.html

The reaction to MJ back in March is so different than it is now.
Basically that he is over, looks terrible, no one cares blah blah blah.

And now we are watching this same press conference in a movie theater.

O_o

This tour would have been great if he had lived, but I'm afraid the reviews would have been way harsh.
29th-Oct-2009 08:59 pm - JFK Jr. of gay men has a new bff.
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Anderson Cooper has been consoling himself over falling ratings by living it up in Jaipur, India, at one of the world's most opulent hotels. The CNN star was spotted Tuesday with his muscular friend, Benjamin Maisani, an owner of East Village gay bar Eastern Bloc, at the Rambagh Palace (seen below), named the best hotel in the world by Conde Nast Traveler. Cooper's $3,200-a-night room features a four-poster mahogany bed and views of the gardens of the former Maharaja palace. Our source said, "Anderson's room has a large round bathtub. On the first night it was filled with bubbles and sprinkled with red rose petals." CNN declined to comment.

CNN declined to comment? 
wtf are they gonna say?

yes he had buttsecks in rose water.

Leave coop alone.

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27th-Oct-2009 09:26 pm - Josh has been cooking. #pillsbury
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What? Josh can cook too?
This is not boding well with me being the alpha house cook.

:)

Crescent Casserole

Macaroni Spinach Casserole

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27th-Oct-2009 03:01 am - From Twitter 10-26-2009
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  • 08:02:04: Lady Gaga called into a local radio show. She will tour TX, just not this leg. :(
  • 12:15:43: ques for flv gurus: what is the best method to convert mov to flv, retaining quality yet min size. is there a magic # ?
  • 19:41:40: Lady Gaga video playing at this gym. It's a sign.

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26th-Oct-2009 11:30 pm - turi tweet
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My life in energetic spurts:

  • 08:02 Lady Gaga called into a local radio show. She will tour TX, just not this leg. :( #
  • 12:15 ques for flv gurus: what is the best method to convert mov to flv, retaining quality yet min size. is there a magic # ? #
  • 19:41 Lady Gaga video playing at this gym. It's a sign. #
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26th-Oct-2009 03:01 am - From Twitter 10-25-2009
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  • 01:40:25: Paranormal Activity was skurry until the Spielberg ending ruined it. still worth the watch. Now to find the original ending cut.
  • 15:04:46: http://bit.ly/183LmW Why am I here
  • 19:24:41: That gym is too good to be true. Going to try it midweek to gauge crowds.
  • 20:58:18: Oh noz we are gonna miss U2's live streaming concert. Internets is down.
  • 21:21:29: @patsyqwerty did you see the pics I took? The website ones are crap

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My life in energetic spurts:

  • 01:40 Paranormal Activity was skurry until the Spielberg ending ruined it. still worth the watch. Now to find the original ending cut. #
  • 15:04 bit.ly/183LmW Why am I here #
  • 19:24 That gym is too good to be true. Going to try it midweek to gauge crowds. #
  • 20:58 Oh noz we are gonna miss U2's live streaming concert. Internets is down. #
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  • 12:06 Seeing what this Paranormal Activity is about. Will it cure my hangover. #

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